1962 - 2026
She is survived by her father, John Baker of Upton; her beloved husband of 41 years, Paul Flanagan of Holliston; her brother, John Baker of Grafton; and her sister, Michele Laflash of Millbury.
Tammy was a proud and devoted mother to six children: Tiffany Henault and her husband Michael, Michael Flanagan and his wife Jessica, Joshua Flanagan and his wife Miriam, Melissa Flanagan and her significant other Joe Gauthier, Theresa Bergeron and her husband Dustin, and Brianna Flanagan and her significant other David Molina.
She was also the loving grandmother of Lillian Henault, Michael Henault, Theadora Henault, Amadeus Molina, Jameson Flanagan, and Jaxon Bergeron. Her grandchildren were her greatest joy, and her family was truly the center of her world. She dedicated her life to making those around her feel loved, supported, and protected.
Tammy was predeceased by her mother, Joan Baker, who passed away in March 2025.
Her love extended far beyond her immediate family. Over the course of two decades, Tammy opened her heart and home to more than 100 foster children. To many, she became much more than a foster parent—she was a source of comfort, stability, guidance, and unconditional love. Her ability to make people feel safe, accepted, and valued left a lasting impact on countless lives.
Helping others was simply who Tammy was. She consistently put the needs of others before her own and found her greatest happiness in spending time with family and friends, creating memories filled with laughter, warmth, and love. She especially cherished time spent in Gloucester, where she found peace and comfort by the ocean.
Known for her strength, determination, and fierce advocacy for those she loved, Tammy faced life's challenges with courage, resilience, and grace. Her unwavering support inspired many and provided strength to countless people throughout her life.
Although her passing leaves an immeasurable void, her legacy lives on through the many lives she touched, the family she cherished, and the kindness she shared so freely. She will be deeply missed, fondly remembered, and forever loved.
Family and friends are invited to celebrate Tammy’s Funeral Mass at 11:00 A.M. on Wednesday, June 3rd, at St. Gabriel the Archangel Church, 151 Mendon Street, Upton.
Burial will follow at Lakeview Cemetery, where she will be laid to rest beside her mother, Joan.
Calling hours will be held from 4:00 to 7:00 P.M. on Tuesday, June 2nd, at the Pickering & Son Upton Funeral Home, 45 Main Street, Upton.
Her family finds comfort in knowing that her love, strength, and spirit remain with them always.
