1933 - 2026
Born on October 9th, 1933, Roger was known throughout his life for his joyful spirit, boundless energy and remarkable ability to bring happiness to those around him. He formed meaningful connections everywhere he went and became a beloved part of several communities throughout his life.
From a young age, Roger had a clear vision for the life he wanted. Determined and tenacious, he advocated for himself and eventually achieved his goal of living independently in his own apartment. He flourished as an active and valued member of the Uxbridge community and took tremendous pride in the independence he had worked so hard to achieve. He especially enjoyed trips to visit family in Florida and spending time with his dear friend, Deb.
Roger later met Walter and Dick and moved into a farmhouse in Upton, beginning another memorable chapter of his life. He became part of a close circle of friends who welcomed him into their lives and community.
Roger embraced everything that came with life on the farm, from looking after the chickens and helping plan the annual pig roast to participating in Open Mic nights at the local Rose Garden Bar. These experiences gave Roger something he treasured deeply: friendship, belonging, laughter and the opportunity to be an active part of his community.
When Roger eventually needed additional support, he moved to a home in Douglas, where he was welcomed by Michelle Mauch and her family. Roger thrived for many years as part of his Shared Living family, developing relationships and enjoying experiences that became an important part of his life. Among those was his particularly special bond with Larry.
Roger's resilience and determination remained with him throughout the challenges he faced. As his health declined, he moved to a home in Grafton, where he was fortunate to be reunited with Deb. Their heartfelt partnership reflected a lifelong connection that meant a great deal to them both.
In Grafton, Roger formed meaningful bonds with his roommates and the staff members who cared for him each day. He quickly became a beloved member of the home. His remarkable energy and determination even inspired a running joke among those who knew him that Roger might live to be 200 years old.
Over the years, Roger became affectionately known by several names, including Grampa, Rocky and Mr. Rog. Each reflected a different relationship and collection of memories, but all represented the special place he held in the lives of those around him.
Roger will be remembered for his joyful personality, fierce independence, resilience and strong spirit, but perhaps most of all for his ability to connect with people. His life was filled with friendships and communities that welcomed him—and that were made richer by his presence.
He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, roommates, caregivers and everyone fortunate enough to have shared a part of his journey.
