1958 - 2026
Pamela lived her life guided by compassion and generosity. She truly embodied the spirit of a caregiver, finding her greatest fulfillment in helping others—both through her work and in her everyday life. Her home was a place of warmth, comfort, and care, and she expressed her love most often through cooking and baking. She believed that food was a way to share love, and her family will forever treasure the memories created around her table.
A woman with a gentle and creative soul, Pamela found serenity near the ocean and comfort in the pages of a good book. She loved expressing herself through arts and crafts, always working on something meaningful with her hands.
For 33 years, Pamela shared a life filled with love and devotion with her partner, Marilu DePaolo. Together, they built a home rooted in kindness, laughter, and unwavering support. Pamela’s greatest pride and joy was her family. Her love extended deeply to her daughters, Michelle Chouinard and Alisha Sullivan, and she found immense happiness in being a grandmother to Alyssa Chouinard, Cassidy Sullivan, and Madison Sullivan, leaving each of them beautiful and lasting memories.
Pamela was preceded in death by her brothers, Nicholas, Michael, Paul, and Steven, and her sister, Lisa. She is survived by her sister, Rosemary Creamer. While her loss leaves an undeniable void, her family finds comfort in knowing she is now at peace, perhaps watching the tide come in from a beautiful shore.
She was deeply loved, and she will be even more deeply missed.
Funeral services will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Massachusetts, 331 Montvale Avenue, Suite 200, Woburn, MA 01801, or online at www.NAMImass.org.
